It is so heartwarming to hear these stories. For our 37 yr old son’s BD I gave him the e mail for Post Adoption Services and hopefully he will follow up on it and maybe this is the catalyst that will give him peace. He is a good man but needs some closure I feel. He seems to be stuck in teenage mode and attitude. He loves his siblings and their kids so much but because of having to live here at home, he has an attitude towards us. He’s more like a boarder but not all the time. 12 years ago he suffered a four wheeler accident in the mountains and was life flighted to our hospital where we met him. His friends had saved his life…2 of them have since died in skiing accidents. We were with him all night for his cranial surgery and he spent 5 days in ICU. He came home and recovered well. Then about 5 years ago he was diagnosed with testicular cancer, one side, had surgery and chemo. He’s fine There have been outstanding college and medical bills but he never talks to us about it . He has a good job, many friends, a fit and healthy 6 footer but we’re hoping that this possibility of birth info will help him feel whole about his life. I had hoped to present him with those facts but getting them has to be done by him. We are so great flu to Holt for this son from Korea. We had 4 kids born to us, and later 2 Viet refugee teens. We almost adopted again, thru the State, from Taiwan but God had other plans.